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Divorce & Family Law Blog

Welcome to the divorce blog. You’ll find information on a broad range of topics related to divorce, support payments, child custody, and other family law topics.
single dad kids going back to school
August 18, 2025
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Back To School Tips For Divorced Dads

Back to school time can be stressful for kids and parents, especially newly divorced dads. Here are some tips to help start the year off ...
how do writ of assistance's work
July 31, 2025
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Writ Of Assistance, Divorce, And Child Custody in Oregon

On a basic level, a writ of assistance is a written court order that instructs law enforcement, such as a sheriff or police officer, to ...
how does Oregon determine custody
July 24, 2025
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Oregon Custody: The Best Interests Of The Child

When it comes to child custody, the courts follow one overriding principle: the best interests of the child. This phrase comes up frequently when a ...
how are assets divided in divorce

The Division of Property and Divorce in Oregon

As opposed to community property states, where all property acquired during marriage belongs equally to both spouses, equitable distribution views the property as belonging to ...
Why moving out is the biggest mistake in a divorce

Is Moving Out During Divorce a Mistake?

Moving out during a divorce may seem like a natural choice, but has an impact on custody, the division of property, and spousal support. ...
how do divorce depositions work
June 18, 2025
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What Is A Divorce Deposition?

Useful tools, depositions often come into play in many legal cases. They’re commonly used in all legal areas, including family law. During the process of ...
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Can You Get a Divorce If You Can’t Find Your Spouse?

You can still get divorced even if you can’t find your spouse. However, the process obviously changes if you can’t locate your significant other. ...
can a primary move away with your kids?
June 3, 2025
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Can A Custodial Parent Relocate After Divorce?

Co-parenting after divorce is difficult. Custody arrangements, parenting plans, schedules, and continuing conflict between exes all impact parenting time. And circumstances often change. What if ...
how to save money on your divorce
May 22, 2025
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How Can You Save Money on Your Divorce?

Divorce is expensive. That probably doesn’t shock anyone. Fortunately, there are strategies to cut down on expenses and save money during a divorce. The exact ...
should you file for divorce first

Does It Matter Who Files For Divorce First?

It’s a double-edged sword. Presenting your case first gives you the chance to make a convincing first impression. However, by presenting first, you reveal your ...
major purchase divorce

Can You Make a Major Purchase During Divorce?

The divorce process comes with many expenses. You have court costs, filing fees, an attorney to pay, and even a change in tax status. In ...
divorce tips and strategies
April 10, 2025
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Divorce Tips and Strategies

Ending a marriage can be a chaotic, trying time. You have a lot going on. Meetings with attorneys, mediation, forms to fill out, and documents ...
do step parents have rights
March 27, 2025
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Do Step-Parents’ Have Rights in Oregon?

As common as divorce and remarriage are, the topic of step-parents comes up often in cases that involve children. More specifically, questions about step-parents’ rights ...
long-term marriages and divorce
March 19, 2025
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Do Long-Term Marriages Complicate the Divorce Process?

Over the course of a marriage, two lives become intertwined. The longer the marriage, the more interwoven they become. Like others, long-term marriages end for ...
how are student loans treated in divorce

How Does Student Loan Debt Impact Divorce?

Money problems ruin at least as many marriages as infidelity, probably more. Financial strain is a huge source of stress for many people, both individuals ...
when can you DIY divorce

Pro Se Divorce: When Is DIY The Best Option?

With the spread of online guides and resources, do-it-yourself divorce has never been more accessible. When is pro se divorce a good idea? ...
what dads can learn from movies
February 25, 2025
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Cinematic Lessons in Fatherhood: Great Movie Dads

TV and movie fathers may be (generally) fictional, but they can still teach you about what it means to be a parent. There are those ...
stopwatch
February 18, 2025
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How Long Does Divorce Take In Oregon?

We call it the “divorce process” for good reason. It takes a while to end a marriage. But just how long does a divorce take ...
Does jurisdiction matter in divorce
February 13, 2025
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Jurisdiction: Does Where You File For Divorce Impact Your Case?

Jurisdiction has a huge impact. Here’s what you need to know about where you file for divorce and how it influences your case. ...
should you hire a divorce lawyer?
February 5, 2025
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When Should You Hire a Divorce Attorney?

There are a lot of questions to ask in the process of ending a marriage. One is whether or not you need to hire a ...
can cannabis effect child custody rights
January 21, 2025
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Does Legal Marijuana Impact Child Custody?

Legalized weed has been a game-changer in many states, but the question remains of how marijuana impacts child custody cases. ...
grounds for divorce
January 13, 2025
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No-Fault Divorce in Oregon: What are Grounds for Divorce?

When you read about divorce, you often see “irreconcilable differences” listed as the root cause of the separation. You hear this phrase frequently because the ...
more divorces in January than any other month
January 6, 2025
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Is January Really Divorce Month?

Fair or not, nicknames often stick and are hard to shake. A pesky moniker can follow you around for years. How many of us have ...
cheating and divorce
December 16, 2024
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How Does Adultery Affect Divorce in Oregon?

Adultery can and often does destroy a relationship. It’s often the reason people divorce. But how does it actually impact divorce settlements? ...
generational divorce rates
November 18, 2024
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How Has the Divorce Rate Changed With Each Generation?

The common refrain is that the divorce rate in the United States hovers around the 50% mark. Except it doesn’t, and never has. The hows ...
the cost of getting divorced in Oregon
November 12, 2024
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What Is The Average Cost of Divorce in Oregon?

Ending a marriage can be an expensive proposition even when uncontested. Here are the costs of divorce you should be on the lookout for. ...
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November 4, 2024
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Prepare For Your Initial Divorce Consultation

The first meeting with a divorce attorney can be daunting, but fortunately, there are ways to prepare for your initial consultation. ...
what is the actual rate of divorce?
October 28, 2024
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Is the 50% Divorce Rate a Myth?

One statistic tossed around frequently is that 50% of all marriages end in divorce. The number varies a bit, but the gist is that roughly ...
is a modification possible
October 21, 2024
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Qualifying for Child Support Modification

Once in place, it’s difficult to modify child support orders. That’s not to say it’s impossible, but it isn’t an easy road. ...
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October 14, 2024
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Awesome Dad Movies For Any Holiday

One of our favorite traditions is watching movies with the old man. Following that line of thinking, here are some of our favorites to watch ...
scary divorce facts
October 7, 2024
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10 Truly Scary Divorce Facts

Divorce is usually a time of great upheaval. It may absolutely be the right decision, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. In a relatively short ...
can you prepare for divorce
September 9, 2024
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Ways To Prepare For Divorce

Divorce is a huge undertaking. Depending on the situation, it can be a long, in-depth process full of forms, hearings, meetings, and more. While no ...
can you enforce a parenting plan
August 26, 2024
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Violation Of Parenting Plans: Motion For Contempt

It’s often difficult to remain part of your child’s life after a divorce or breakup. One thing that helps ensure you’re able to do this ...
criminal charges child custody
August 19, 2024
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Can Criminal Charges Impact Child Custody?

When it comes to disputes over custody, the court places the best interests of the children above all other concerns. That’s the general rule. This ...
Oregon Custody: Parenting Evaluations
August 7, 2024
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What Is A Parenting Evaluation?

A parenting evaluation is a formal investigation to assess the parenting skills of the parties involved to determine the primary caregiver. ...
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August 1, 2024
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How Substance Abuse Impacts Divorce

Countless factors contribute to the end of a marriage. Every situation unfolds differently, but drugs and alcohol too often play into divorce. Hugely detrimental to ...
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How to Divorce in Oregon

Ending a marriage sounds harrowing and dramatic. It can get complicated. We often field questions from people asking how to divorce in Oregon. ...
New Spouse's Income

Can My Ex Come After My New Spouse’s Income?

Child support tends to get tricky. There’s a formula involved, but it accounts for many factors. Of course, the income of both parents, as well ...
prenup comic
June 26, 2024
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Do I Need a Prenuptial Agreement?

When most of us think of a prenuptial agreement, we think of wealthy couples with more money than we can ever dream of. We’re talking ...
strategize a divorce plan

Creating a Divorce Strategy

Divorce often looms on the horizon for quite some time before a couple finally pulls the trigger. In many cases, people are emotionally prepared for ...
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June 6, 2024
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Whether To Sell Your Home During Divorce: 5 Questions To Answer

For most of us, a house is the most expensive thing we’ll ever buy. The question often comes up of whether or not to sell ...
community property vs equitable distribution

Is Oregon A Community Property State?

When it comes to the division of property, Oregon follows equitable distribution, not the community property model. But what does that mean? ...
can custody exchanges go smoother?
May 23, 2024
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Tips For Keeping Child Custody Exchanges Civil

If you have kids, after divorce you’ll likely still have to see your ex at custody exchanges. Here are some tips to make the swaps ...
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Is Summary Dissolution Your Quick Divorce Answer?

Divorce is a long, drawn-out process. It involves countless court dates, meetings with lawyers, and an endless back and forth as the two spouses bicker ...
fathers rights when unmarried
April 30, 2024
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Oregon Custody Laws for Unmarried Parents

Divorce and child custody cases often go hand in hand, but not always. Not everyone gets married before having kids, so what rights do unmarried ...
men and depression
April 23, 2024
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Divorce and Depression: The Impact on Men

Did you expect a sense of relief once you finally finalized your divorce? Did you anticipate an overwhelming wave of elation and well-being once you ...
judges gavel
April 16, 2024
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After The Court Appoints A Guardian Ad Litem

The court may appoint a guardian ad litem during a custody case, but what does that mean and what should you expect once that happens? ...
how abandonment affects divorce
April 1, 2024
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How Abandonment Impacts Divorce in Oregon

On the surface, abandonment seems like a cut-and-dried issue. But it has a much more complex and substantial impact on divorce. ...
financial errors divorce
April 1, 2024
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Common Financial Mistakes in Divorce

Divorce can be a stressful, emotional time, where you’re juggling a great many balls. In this situation, things slip through the cracks and financial mistakes ...
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March 13, 2024
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Common Child Support Questions Answered

For parents, children are the most important part of our lives. We do just about anything to keep them safe and put their well-being ahead ...